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Person-Centred Counselling with Kate

Choosing the right counsellor can feel like a big decision. 
It's natural to want someone who feels right for you

You might be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or wanting to understand yourself better. Engaging in person-centred counselling means you’ll be met with warmth and authenticity in a supportive space, where you decide the pace and there’s room to make sense of what you're holding, little by little.


You can book a free 20-minute Zoom call to see if this could be the right fit for you, because finding that connection really can make all the difference.

But the first step doesn’t have to feel like a big one 💚

Get in touch to book a free 20-minute introductory call. 

Hey, I'm Kate

PERSON CENTRED COUNSELLOR | MENTAL HEALTH FIRST AID INSTRUCTOR

I offer a warm, compassionate space where you can talk things through, feel genuinely heard, and explore whatever’s on your mind — at your own pace.

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Person Centred Counselling​

​I work in a Person-Centred way, which means:

  • You’re in the driving seat, I believe you're the only expert on you.

  • I trust in your capacity to grow and heal, on your own terms.

  • I’m here to support your process, not to judge or analyse you.
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You won't get homework. Just a supportive, boundaried space to talk and reflect, where we can make sense of things together. ​
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Welcoming All of You, Always

You deserve a counselling space where you can be fully yourself, without having to hold anything back. For many people, racism, oppression, class, culture and identity shape our lives and affect our mental health. These things often show up in therapy, and I welcome anything you want to bring into the room.
 

I’ve spent the past few years working in a Black-led counselling service. That experience continues to shape how I think about power and psychological safety in this work. I’m committed to making therapy accessible and inclusive — and I welcome you exactly as you are.
 

The Life Experience I Bring

Before retraining as a counsellor, I spent two decades in corporate marketing, an experience that deepened my understanding of how people cope, communicate, and often mask what they’re feeling under pressure.

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Alongside my counselling work, I deliver mental health lessons to secondary school students and Mental Health First Aid® training at workplaces. Across these roles, my focus is on creating safer, more informed spaces where people can be themselves, feel heard, and access the support they need.

Practicalities

  • Sessions with me are held in English

  • I work online, with adults based anywhere in the UK

  • I’m dedicated to ongoing learning, reflection, and anti-oppressive practice

  • I am committed to working in line with the BACP ethical standards

Professional Directory Profiles

BACP Registered Member logo with membership number 413599 and Professional Standards Authority accreditation.
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My Approach

I offer person-centred counselling, which is a kind, genuine approach that trusts you to be the expert on your own life.

Believes you're the expert.

 

 

 


I won’t tell you what to do.

I’ll support you to find the path that feels right for you.

Trusts your inner wisdom.

I wholeheartedly believe what you need is already within you. I’ll create space for it to unfold.

Listens with empathy. 

When you feel deeply seen and understood, it can be easier to make sense of what’s going on.

Follows your lead.

You set the pace and choose what to bring. There’s no agenda or pressure to say anything before you're ready.

Welcomes all of you, fully.

You can bring your whole self and say what you’re really feeling. You don’t have to hide any parts of you.

Stays genuinely authentic.

I don’t have all the answers, and I won’t pretend to. I’ll meet you as a real person, not as a clipboard.

A compassionate and authentic space where you can gradually untangle your thoughts and feelings, at your own pace.

Fees

Person-centred online counselling.

 

Based in St Albans, Hertfordshire, working with clients across the UK.

Introductory Call (20 mins)

Free 

A chance to meet, ask questions, and see if working together feels like a good fit.

Standard Sessions (50 mins)
£60 per session

Open-ended support, so you don't have to be 'fixed' in 6-8 sessions.​​​​

Reduced-Cost Places

To help make therapy more accessible, I offer four lower-cost spaces for those on reduced incomes

Reduced Fee (50 mins)

£40 per session

Subsidised Fee (50 mins)

£20 per session

All four slots are currently full, but you can join the waiting list, and I’ll be in touch when a space opens up.

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Special Interest Areas

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ADHD

Living with ADHD (diagnosed or self-identified) can significantly affect your everyday life. For many, late diagnosis brings a sense of relief, but also grief for what’s been misunderstood or missed. Counselling offers space to reconnect with who you are beneath the masking. 

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Perimenopause

The emotional impact of perimenopause can be underestimated. Anxiety, brain fog, and losing a sense of self can feel disorientating and isolating. This is a space to explore what you're feeling, reconnect with yourself, and feel supported through the changes.

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DNA Discoveries

I offer counselling support for people navigating the emotional impact of ancestry research, genetic testing, and DNA discoveries. Whether you're uncovering long-held family secrets, learning about new biological relatives, or grappling with questions of identity, you're not alone.

ADHD-Aware Counselling

Life’s unpredictable at the best of times, especially when you’re juggling work, family and ADHD.

That’s why you get flexible, judgement-free support with practical adjustments already built in.

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More time
No extra cost

If you're ADHD or AuDHD, you’ll get 20% more time - no extra charge

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Helpful Reminders

Automated calendar invites and SMS text nudges that work for busy brains

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You get two Amnesty Tokens

Each token lets you cancel at short notice - no fee, no guilt, no questions asked

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Open-Ended Sessions

So you don’t have to be ‘fixed’ in 6-8 weeks. Stay for as long as it’s useful.

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Time Blindness Welcome

Whether it’s traffic or losing track of time, you won’t get a guilt trip if you're late

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Skip the Form-Filling

If forms feel impossible, I’ll fill them out for you - just say the word

Free Intro Call

I offer a free 20-minute consultation on Zoom.

It's just a chance to say hello and see if working together might feel like a good fit.

What to Expect

  • You can share what’s brought you (only if you want to).

  • Ask questions about how I work.

  • There's no obligation to book a full session.​​

On a Video Call

If you’d prefer to send me a message or talk before booking, you can call or text 07488307355

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What I Can Support You With

  • Abuse

  • Addiction

  • ADHD 

  • Affairs and betrayals

  • Anger Management

  • Anxiety

  • AuDHD

  • Autism

  • Bereavement

  • Bullying

  • Burnout

  • Career counselling

  • Climate and eco-anxiety

  • Depression

  • Discrimination

  • Domestic abuse

  • Drug addiction
  • DNA Discoveries

  • Dyslexia

  • Eating disorders

  • Emotional abuse

  • Family history revelations

  • Feeling sad

  • Generalised anxiety disorder (GAD)

  • Health anxiety

  • High sensitivity

  • Jealousy

  • Loneliness

  • Low self-confidence

  • Low self-esteem

  • Menopause

  • Mental health
  • Money

  • Narcissistic abuse

  • Neurodiversity

  • Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)

  • Overwhelm

  • Panic attacks

  • Perimenopause

  • Perfectionism

  • Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)

  • Race and racial identity

  • Redundancy

  • Relationship problems

  • Seasonal affective disorder (SAD)
  • Self-harm

  • Separation and divorce

  • Separation anxiety

  • Sex problems

  • Sexual abuse

  • Social anxiety

  • Stress

  • Suicidal thoughts

  • Trauma

  • Work-related stress

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